Monogramming etiquette for an engaged couple

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Monogramming is a popular way to personalize a variety of household items such as stationery, linens and glassware. Most married couples will combine their initials into a single monogram, but the rules are not as clear for engaged couples.

1. Before the Wedding Ceremony

   • As a general rule, engaged couples should not use the married monogram combining their initials until after the wedding ceremony takes place. However, some couples will choose to begin using the married monogram during the wedding ceremony on items like the wedding programs, aisle runner or unity candle.

   Modern-Day Exceptions

   • Many engaged couples will register at large retailers or department stores that offer to monogram their items for them. In these cases, the married monogram is often used in the gift-giving process. The married monogram can also be used in wedding invitations, announcements and related literature.

   Proper Monogram Use Before the Wedding

   • Engaged couples can use a combination of their first name initials or just simply spell out their first names, e.g., "J&A" or "Jessica & Andy." Traditionally the woman's initial is first, but it is up to the couple how they want to list the initials or names for monogramming.

   After the Wedding

   • Couples can begin using the married monogram once the ceremony has ended. Traditional married monograms consist of the husband's last-name initial in the center and the first-name initials of the couple on either side in smaller font.

   Alternatives

   • If the couple is not going to share a last name after the wedding ceremony, they can use the two initials of their last names side by side in the same font. The couple chooses the order of the initials. For example, Smith and Jones would be "SJ" or "JS."

Source: www.ehow.com

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