How to plan a courthouse marriage a small reception

plan a courthouse marriage & a small reception

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Planning a courthouse wedding and a small reception saves money, but it still will require careful planning and organization to make the day go off without a hitch. Each state has different rules and time frames to obtain the marriage license, which you will need to become legally married. Visit your local courthouse's website or USMarriageLaws.com to find your state's marriage license laws. Most states require two witnesses be present during the ceremony, and they often restrict the number of guests. Asking questions early will ensure that you are properly prepared with everything you need on your wedding day.

Things You'll Need

• Marriage license
• 2 witnesses
• Rings
• Camera
• Invitations
• Decorations

Instructions

1. Courthouse Wedding

   • 1

     Apply for the marriage license. Visit the local courthouse and request a marriage license. In most states, either you or your partner can do this with the appropriate identification -- usually photo identification and birth certificates. Requirements vary by state as do the waiting periods, fees and the length of time the license remains valid.

   • 2

     Ask two people to stand as your witnesses. Most states require two witnesses that consent to the union between the two of you and vouch that you both are in your right mind and acting under your own free will. Typically the groom will choose one witness, his best man, and the bride will choose the other, her maid of honor. Witnesses can be any adult over the age of eighteen.

   • 3

     Set the wedding date and notify the courthouse so they can arrange for a judge to marry you on that day. Most locations will require you to choose a weekday for the wedding ceremony, Monday through Friday, as well as a time during normal business hours.

   • 4

     Arrange for a photographer or videographer to be in the room when you get married. Make all the standard wedding arrangements, such as wedding attire, flowers and rings. Most courthouses do not allow decorations or only minimal decorations because of time restraints- make sure to ask prior to the wedding day and plan accordingly.

   Reception

   • 5

     Rent a small venue for the wedding reception. To cut costs, ask if you can host the reception at a friend's or family member's home, or host the reception in your own home. Other options include: local restaurants, parks or community centers. The reception does not need to directly follow the courthouse ceremony- instead host the reception the following weekend or on the evening of your wedding day.

   • 6

     Mail out reception invitations to guests at least three weeks before the reception date. You should mention on the invitation that the invite is for the reception only, as the ceremony was private with no guests. List important information, including date, time, location, RSVP date, contact information and directions.

   • 7

     Decorate the venue with flowers, streamers or balloons to suit the reception theme. Bake or purchase a small wedding cake or cupcakes. Decide on a menu for the reception. If you are having the reception at a restaurant, discuss the menu with their staff. Other food options include: catering, barbecue or a potluck.

Tips &- Warnings

• Research the policies the courthouse has in place for weddings so you are aware of what you need before making any arrangements.

Source: www.ehow.com

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