plan a courthouse wedding
It's interesting:"I think you'll all agree that it's been a wonderful wedding so far. ... But I never received a formal invitation to the wedding, so I just hope I haven't eaten a meal ..."
Most women dream about their wedding. The right dress, perfect hair, beautiful shoes -- but most importantly, the perfect man they dream about calling their husband. But when money is tight and the love is strong, the details become less important. So if you have decided to go before a judge or other public official to make your commitment, you needn't forgo the fun and magic of your special day.
Things You'll Need
- marriage license
Instructions
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Go to your local courthouse and register for a marriage license. The small fee varies by state. If you plan to marry at the courthouse, talk to the attendant who is filing your marriage license. This person should be able to set your wedding date. Obtaining the marriage license usually takes two weeks, but this can vary.
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Designate your witnesses. Most states require two witnesses to oversee your union. Traditionally, this is the role of a maid of honor and best man. But a witness can be any adult over age 18.
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Pamper yourself on your wedding day. Every bride deserves a little indulgence. So allow a long bubble bath. Give or get yourself a manicure and pedicure, or even get your hair done. Treat yourself wonderfully. You are a princess that day, no matter how simple your ceremony will be.
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Get dressed up. Buy yourself a pretty new dress or a cute new top. You deserve to look and feel special, even if it is only a $10 to $20 investment. It is an investment in you that will make you glow with happiness as you become a Mrs.
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Carry flowers. Even if you cannot afford a specialty bouquet, pick a handful of wildflowers and tie with ribbons. These small details will help you feel the part of a blushing bride.
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Assign a photographer. Whatever you do, don't skip this part. Pictures preserve the occasion. Have a friend or family member take snapshots before, during and after the wedding. These moments of love deserve to be framed and remembered.
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Plan what to do after the ceremony. Go out to eat with your witnesses and family members. Go somewhere you can afford and enjoy. A dinner after your ceremony makes the wedding feel official, giving you the perfect opportunity to laugh, love and share the beauty of the love you and your new spouse share. After the dinner, consider going away on a short retreat that is
rejuvenating and fun, even if it is a simple night at a local motel. A change of scenery can make all the difference. If that isn't in the budget or your time frame, before you leave for the courthouse, make your home into a honeymoon retreat. Make sure the bed is made up with fresh linens. Turn off the phone and anything else that could disturb you. Have a couple of candles set out, and don't forget a few luxuries such as a bottle of wine and maybe some chocolates.
Tips &- Warnings
Most people who marry before a government official forgo a reception. But why skip out? You can plan a small get-together at a local bar, or have a backyard barbecue. Alternately, plan a reception for later -- maybe your first anniversary -- when you can afford the time or money.
Check your state's marriage license laws before you begin planning.
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