Thursday, February 12, 2009

How to meet single black men in chicago

meet single black men in chicago


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If you are a woman in Chicago with a preference for black men, finding love may feel similar to applying for a full-time job. A 2005 "Chicago Sun Times" piece says that professional black women are particularly frustrated in their efforts to meet and date their male counterpart. Of course, Chicago singles recognize that the competition for black men comes from all races. To best meet black men in Chicago, you should first identify particular events that cater to Mr. Right. From there, you can work to put your best foot forward and get your man.

Instructions

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      Describe the type of black man who you typically find attractive and is compatible with your personality. Although you should never settle, it is also important to recognize a prospective mate's potential. For example, a blue-collar black man could eventually own his own construction company through hard work.

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      Locate Chicago neighborhoods that feature high concentrations of single black men. For work, many eligible black men converge on the Loop during the day. After work, these men often commute back to South Loop or Hyde Park homes. As a newcomer to Chicago, you may look to settle within these areas for a better social life. As a current resident, you should purposefully run errands in the South Loop and Hyde Park for improved chances of meeting a black man.

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      Know your sports. According to ESPN and Scoop Jackson, Chicago is one of the nation's top sports towns. To extend conversations with Chicago's eligible black bachelors, you'll score points if you can identify the Bears' starting quarterback and determine whether the Bears, Bulls or South Side White Sox are in championship contention. To stay informed, scan "Chicago Tribune" and "Sun Times" sports headlines daily.

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      Purchase a gym membership so you can get/stay healthy and attract a mate who wants to do the same. In Chicago, athletic black men exercise regularly at the Hyde Park Bally's on East 47th Street and the South Loop X-Sport fitness club on State Street. Eligible black bachelors usually begin their workouts at 5:30 p.m.

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      Research information sources for Chicago events that attract black men. The DuSable Museum, alongside the South Shore and Harold Washington centers, frequently host programs, such as art showings and dance classes, which are geared toward black singles. Meanwhile, Chicago Metromix and Centerstage are two websites that provide current information on local bars, clubs and concerts.

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      Patronize lounges and live music venues throughout the city where the emphasis is on mingling and conversation. Chicago has a rich blues tradition, and jazz clubs such as Buddy Guy's Legends and Blue Chicago remain popular with a more mature crowd. Young singles can meet black men at the various lounges and restaurants that line the West Loop, Warehouse District and Stony Island Avenue.

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      Give your contact information to a single black man that sparks your interest. Over the telephone, you and your new beau can schedule date plans. For a first date, Hyde Park, River North and Wicker Park are good neighborhoods for food, drinks, dancing and entertainment.


Source: www.ehow.com

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