Mormon wedding announcement etiquette

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Mormon, or LDS, weddings are formal and joyous affairs. Your wedding announcement and invitations should convey the spirit of the event with poise and dignity. Learn the etiquette of writing and sending Mormon wedding announcements, from the stationary you choose to the wording, to make this momentous occasion one that people will remember for years to come.

1. Size

   • The temple ceremony typically can hold about 50 people. Check with your temple to see what their space limitations are, and adjust your guest list accordingly. Should you wish to send announcements to more people than can be invited to the actual ceremony, include only the pertinent information for all guests on the announcement, and enclose special invitations on a separate card for those invited to the temple ceremony.

   Wording of Announcement

   • The actual wording of your announcement will change depending on who is hosting (paying) for the wedding. Some basic etiquette rules should be followed when writing the announcement. Dates are written out, including the year- for example, the fourteenth of May, two thousand and eleven, rather than May 14, 2011. It is also acceptable to reverse the date and day for a slightly less formal version: May fourteenth, two thousand and eleven. You may choose to capitalize the names of the year, though this seems to be a matter of personal choice. Always write out full names and avoid abbreviations except for common ones such as Mr., Mrs., and Dr.

   Time Frame

   • Wedding invitations and announcements should be sent between three and six weeks in advance of the event, to give both local and out-of-town guests time to arrange for transportation, child care and other needs should they be attending the wedding.

   Stationary

   • Mormon wedding announcements should be tasteful and printed on quality, matching paper stock. If you choose to add a photo, avoid enclosing photos with unnecessary displays of affection, which can be offensive to some guests. You may choose to print your own announcements- look for cardstock in office or craft supply stores and print at the best quality setting on the printer for optimal results. If you choose to order announcements and invitations, check with several printers before signing a contract, as prices and packages can vary between companies. Regardless of whether you choose the professional or DIY route, try to match the invitation to the style of reception you have planned.

   Other Considerations

   • If you are having a special meal before or after the temple ceremony, you may wish to enclose invitations to this event with your announcement. Placing these invitations in small cards within the announcement is an elegant gesture befitting the more formal tone of a Mormon wedding.

     RSVP response cards should be included as well- if you have several other enclosures in the announcement, for example a temple ceremony invitation and wedding breakfast invitation, you will want to have separate RSVP cards for these as well. Adding a self-addressed, stamped envelope for guests to return their cards is a nice touch that will be appreciated.

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