Fun birthday ideas in nyc

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New York City is one of the greatest places in the world to celebrate a birthday. Why? Because it has everything. See the city from the skies in a penthouse loft you can rent for your closest hundred or so friends and family. Or stake out a table at a restaurant in one of New York's ethnic neighborhoods like Little Italy, Chinatown or Koreatown. And if it's a twist on the classic birthday party that you want, have a blast at a glow-in-the-dark bowling bash.

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1. Simple

   • If you're looking to have a small get-together, with 10 to 20 people and interesting food, consider a birthday party in one of the intimate, authentic Indian restaurants on Sixth Street in the East Village. Also called Little India, Sixth Street between First and Second avenues offers no less than two dozen restaurants that serve traditional and modern twists on the flavors of India. What will make this party stand out is that just before the cake is served, the restaurant lights will dim, strings of twinkling rainbow lights will start blinking in a frenzy and, depending on the restaurant you choose, the staff, including busboys, will join your party in singing "Happy Birthday" along with a song playing in the background. Whether it's "Happy Birthday" in a local Indian dialect, you might want to ask. For a party larger than 10, it's best to reserve space. Since most restaurants do not serve traditional desserts, bring your own cake from Veniero's, an East Village staple since 1894.

   Extravagant

   • For an elegant night you'll never forget, consider renting a loft in one of New York City's trendiest neighborhoods for your birthday bash. Loft 11, one of many special-event party rental outfits, offers Penthouse 15, a space with east and west views of the city and rooftop access. Entertain up to 250 guests for a stand-up reception. In the West 30s, known as the Hudson Yards District, hold your party at a duplex penthouse loft with wraparound roof access. Floor-to-ceiling windows, a glass-enclosed room and views of the Hudson River and Empire State Building will awe your guests. The space can hold up to 300 guests, or as few as 25 if you rent a portion of the house.

   Fun

   • You don't have to live in the suburbs to have a bowling party. Bowlmor Lanes near Union Square is the perfect birthday party venue. It offers a DJ, catering and full-bar access. Choose one of three packages. They include two hours of unlimited bowling, shoe rentals, pizza, sandwich or appetizer selections, and alcohol or soft drink choices. Bowlmor is popular with New Yorkers who like glow-in-the-dark bowling, great music, big-screen video walls and lane-side food and drink service. Bowlmor even has packages for kids' parties that include food, snacks, invitations and party favors. And what's a birthday party without a cake? Tribeca Treats has been featured in "People," "Star" and "US Weekly" magazines. Cakes are made to order and can be customized in a dozen or so flavors like plain old vanilla and chocolate or specialty flavors like black velvet or banana.

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How to dress to cover up belly fat

dress to cover up belly fat

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Both men and women have concerns cover up unwanted belly fat when they dress. An understandable conclusion that many have is to cover up everything in large, loose clothing. But what you should be looking for are well-fitting clothes that give you a streamlined look. Don't hide away in sweat suits when you can dress to feel your best, even when you're carrying some extra weight.

Instructions

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     Wear clothes that fit you well, and aren't too tight or too loose. Tight clothes will cling to bulges, emphasizing them more. Loose, oversized clothes will just make you look larger.

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     Choose tops that draw attention away from the belly area. For men, this could be collared shirts or V-neck tops, which elongate the torso. For women, empire-seamed tops (when a seam runs right under the bustline) draw attention upwards, while the fabric under the seam floats away from the body, camouflaging a larger belly.

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     Wear pants that have flat, not pleated, fronts. Pleats only add more volume. Women's pants that have a side zipper and a flat front give a slimming illusion. Do not wear tight pants to "hold in" extra fat.

   • 4

     Find jackets or sport coats that fit well in the shoulders and can button over the stomach area. Choose jackets that fall to mid-hip. Well-fitting jackets are flattering on men and women. They accentuate your shoulders, making them look wider, which draws attention away from the belly.

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     For women, wear skirts and dresses that have a slight A-line shape. The flare helps to balance out a larger stomach.

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     Avoid tops that have large patterns which will draw attention to your stomach. Instead, select small patterns that can camouflage bulges.

Tips &- Warnings

• Don't worry about size numbers. Sizes vary by designer. Wear whatever size fits you best.

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When is it time to play the wedding march?

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Emily Post decrees that the wedding march is one of the most important details of the wedding. The wedding party, including ushers, bridesmaids and the bride herself, can use the music to perfectly time their walk down the aisle. By walking in time with the music, the members of the wedding will look elegantly unified as they walk past the guests.

1. The Music Begins

   • Start the music as the first member of the wedding party prepares to walk down the aisle. Emily Post recommends that the shortest usher accompanied by the shortest bridesmaid should be the first to walk out. After all other members of the wedding party have walked down the aisle, the bride should wait eight beats before she steps out.

   End of the Music

   • The music should come to an end as soon as the bride and groom are in proper position for the ceremony to begin. Emily Post says that the music's end is most effective if it occurs just as the bride takes the groom's hand and takes one final step into position.

   Alternative Music

   • Although Richard Wagner's "Bridal Chorus" (also known as "Here Comes the Bride") is one of the best-known processionals, the bride and groom are free to choose any song they would like for this part of the ceremony. Popular alternatives include "Canon in D" by Johann Pachelbel, "Spring" (from The Four Seasons) by Antonio Vivaldi and "Sunrise, Sunset", from "Fiddler on the Roof" by Sheldon Harnick and Jerry Bock.

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About japanese weddings

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Japanese wedding ceremonies can be steeped in spiritual meaning or be based more on the interests of the couple getting married. They may include traditional items such as kimonos and sake, or may instead be built around white Western-style dresses and a glamorous honeymoon. However they are performed, Japanese wedding ceremonies can be interesting and beautiful events.

1. Types

   • Japanese weddings can be traditional in the ancient Shinto style and held at a shrine, or they can be celebrated in a more modern fashion where Western elements are integrated into the ceremony alongside the Japanese traditions. These modern ceremonies may be Buddhist, Shinto (Japan's native religion), Christian, or even nonreligious, with the spiritual elements not always matching the couple's religion.

   Features

   • Spring and fall are the most popular times of year for weddings in Japan. In traditional Shinto wedding ceremonies, the couple getting married wears kimonos, with the bride in a special white kimono called a shiromuku. They go through a purification rite, drink sake and then the groom reads words of commitment. They also make offerings at the end of the ceremony to the kami (Shinto gods). Usually only family members and close relatives will attend a traditional ceremony.

     In the more modern style, brides wear white Western-style dresses. The ceremony may be done in a Christian style and in a Christian church. It will include exchanging of rings, and afterward a cake cutting during the reception and a honeymoon. Receptions after the ceremony are popular for both styles of wedding in Japan. A number of guests, even as many as several hundred, including family, friends and co-workers, will begin with an introduction of the couple and be followed by a large meal. Guests will make speeches and sing songs, and then the couple gives a speech and thanks everyone for attending.

     Guests are expected to bring cash gifts for the married couple, which are placed in special envelopes called shugi-bukuro. The amount of money for the gift depends on how close the relationship is with the couple. Wedding receptions are formal occasions, with participants wearing dresses, suits and kimonos. The bride and groom will change clothes several times during the reception, wearing kimonos, dresses and tuxedos. At the end of the reception, the guests will be given souvenirs called hikidemono, which may contain items as varied as candy or even tableware.

   Geography

   • Many Japanese weddings are held at hotels or in wedding halls. Chapels and shrines are located within such facilities specifically for this purpose. Some Japanese couples choose to have their weddings in countries outside of Japan, so that they can combine their honeymoon with the ceremony and also cut back on the number of guests they can invite (and have to pay expenses for).

   Size

   • Shinto wedding ceremonies are small, with only a few close family members attending. But the wedding reception is usually quite large, with up to 200 people invited, including friends, family and co-workers.

   Considerations

   • Guests invited to a Japanese wedding reception are expected to RSVP as soon as possible with their intentions to attend. Then they are expected to bring cash as a gift (not a toaster or set of wine glasses like in Western weddings).

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Bridal etiquette for addressing envelopes

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Sending wedding invitations ranks high on the "to-do" list for wedding planning. As with most bridal tasks, there are rules of etiquette for addressing the envelopes. Martha Stewart observes, "although the etiquette for addressing and assembling invitations has relaxed, there are still some requirements." Following the etiquette for addressing the wedding envelopes helps guests to feel that you have put time, effort, and thought into inviting them to your special day.

1. Inner and Outer Envelope Etiquette

   • Inner and outer envelopes are traditional.

     Wedding invitations have traditionally had both an inner and outer envelope. Historically, according to Crane & Co., invitations were hand-delivered to guests' homes, where the servants removed the outer envelope, and conveyed only the inner envelope to the invitee. This history influences the way these envelopes continue to be addressed. Outer envelopes display guests' titles, names and full mailing addresses. The inner envelope shows only the guests' titles and names.

   General Addressing Etiquette

   • All names, social titles and addresses (including city, state, and house numbers under 20) should be fully written with no abbreviations. Married couples' invitations, according to Emily Post, should always be addressed to "both members of the [...] couple even though the bride may know only one." If the couple has different last names, the wife's name traditionally appears first and the names are joined by "and." The Knot explains that co-habitating unmarried couples' names are written in alphabetical order, one name per line. If a single invitee may bring a guest, indicate this only on the inner envelope, including the person's name or the phrase "and Guest."

   Addressing Etiquette and Children

   • Inviting children

     When younger children are invited to a wedding, their names are included only on the inner envelope of their parents' invitation--either with their names or the phrase "and Family" according to The Knot. Children over 18 should receive their own invitations (although siblings both over 18 may receive a joint invitation). In general, if the child's name or "and family" is not included on the inner envelope, guests should understand that the wedding is adults-only.

   Return Address Etiquette

   • Return addresses traditionally go on the back.

     Although Emily Post notes that the inclusion of return addresses on bridal envelopes was once considered "bad taste," she believes it is "time to change the rule." Traditionally, the return address was blind embossed (raised colorless letters) on the back flap of the envelope so that the first glimpse of engraved writing would be on the invitation itself. The Postal Service prefers a darker engraved return address on the front of the envelope, and Post agrees, seeing no reason why the return address cannot be legibly engraved on the front. Crane and Co. disagrees and cautions "Don't do it. It will make your invitations look too commercial."

   Labels vs. Handwritten Address Etiquette

   • Handwritten addresses are preferable.

     It may be tempting, particularly with a large guest list, to opt for printed address labels. Martha Stewart advises against this shortcut, stating "the address on a wedding invitation should be handwritten- printed labels are not appropriate." The Knot agrees, adding that handwritten invites are not only more formal, but also more personal. Stewart concedes, however, that computer-generated calligraphy printed directly on envelopes is becoming more acceptable and The Knot suggests that brides who decide to use labels should "at least go with a computer font that looks like script, and use clear labels so your invitations will have some semblance of being hand-addressed."

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An mc wedding checklist

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A wedding MC is the Master of Ceremonies. You have been entrusted by the bride and groom to keep the reception flowing smoothly and on time. You can share your own stories of the bride and groom to keep the guests laughing. You will work closely with the wedding planner to ensure that the reception runs exactly how the bride and groom envisioned.

1. Know the Key Players

   • It is essential to know who the key players in the wedding are. You will need to know some background information on the bride, groom, best man, maid of honor and father of the bride, along with anyone else who may be making a toast or speech at the reception. Ask the couple if there are any special guests that they wish to recognize, such as family members and grandparents.

   Prepare the Agenda

   • A detailed timeline of events should be prepared to help you guide the wedding reception. You will need to coordinate this timeline with the wedding coordinator and the bride and groom. The timeline should include when the guests arrive, the presentation of the bride and groom, the wedding toasts and final dance. You will need to make sure that the event runs smoothly and on time. Include important details, such as who will be making the toast.

   Venue

   • You will work with the wedding coordinator to make sure the venue is properly outfitted. Make sure that all audio equipment is working properly and is in the appropriate location. Check the location of speakers and ensure that everyone in the venue will be able to hear speeches and music. If anything is not working properly or is in the wrong place, take action to correct the issue.

   Know What You're Saying

   • Prepare what you will say. You can include stories that you have learned from the background information about the key players, funny jokes and anything the couple requests. Keep your statements short and to the point. You don't want to ramble while the guests are waiting to hear from the key players. Do not include anything inappropriate or embarrassing. Keep your material PG-13, unless instructed otherwise by the wedding coordinator or the couple.

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Wedding halls in avondale, az

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Avondale, Arizona, is a picturesque city located near the Estrella Mountains. Avondale's location in Arizona makes it a summer-like destination year round. Multiple months out of the year, though, can be extremely hot, with temperatures reaching 100 degrees F or more. Brides who wish to plan a wedding in the area should look to indoor facilities particularly during the hot months. Avondale and the surrounding areas offer a number of facilities that have just these type of facilities.

1. Old Town Avondale Reception Hall

   • Old Town Avondale Reception Hall is located in historic downtown Avondale. The facility's wedding and reception center is 4,500 square feet and accommodates up to 200 guests. The facility offers four wedding packages. Each package includes the minimum features of a seven-hour facility rental, round tables and chairs, a cake and gift table, bridal table, arch for floral and light decoration, two security guards, an event coordinator, linens, flower stands and two waiters and a bartender. Add-ons to each package level include catering services, D.J., wedding cake, limousine and photography. All packages include use of the hall's kitchen and dressing rooms and setup and take-down services.

   Estrella Vista Reception Center

   • Estrella Vista Reception Center includes an 8,000-square-foot indoor facility that includes a 5,500-square-foot ball room with glass doors that open to a view of Avondale. An indoor banquet facility accommodates up to 350 guests. Outdoor facilities include a landscaped patio with a 10-foot water fountain overlooking the Estrella Mountains or the Pavillion at Estrella Vista, a 6,000-square-foot landscaped garden area. The Pavillion includes an outdoor fireplace, bar, stage and outdoor lighting. Estrella Vista Reception Centers offers a number of wedding packages that include catering, limousine service and reception decorations.

   Hilton Garden Inn Phoenix/Avondale

   • The Hilton Garden Inn Phoenix/Avondale offers indoor and outdoor wedding facilities including the Avondale Terrace, which features an outdoor fireplace, padded wooden chairs for guests and dressing facilities. The ballroom at the hotel serves as a reception facility where brides can choose to have a cocktail hour, three-course casual dinners, a casual or formal dinner buffet or a dual entree service. Bar packages, rehearsal dinner catering and post-wedding brunch services are also available.

   The Wigwam

   • The Wigwam sits on 440 landscaped acres in nearby Litchfield Park. The Wigwam is a hotel built in the traditional Territorial Adobe architecture with 331 guest casitas decorated with handcrafted pottery and wood-worked furniture. The Wigwam offers wedding services including wedding sites and reception services. Wedding venues are located throughout the landscaped grounds. Reception halls include the Wigwam Ballroom, which accommodates up to 500 guests and features high ceilings and an oversized dance floor. Sachem Hall features 15-foot ceilings and large chandeliers, ideal for small groups. The Mohave Ballroom accommodates up to 300 guests and provides more contemporary decor.

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What to write on a wedding gift enclosure

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While much attention is given to writing thank-you cards by the bride and groom, what about cards to the bride and groom? When writing a gift enclosure card, it is important to share personalized thoughts as to why your gift was chosen, well-wishes for the happy couple or memories you share of the couple. This approach gives special meaning to both your card and gift.

1. Salutation and First Few Sentences

   • After the Dear...greeting, the best place to start is to express you and your loved one's excitement over the special day. Examples may include:

     •- How thrilled we all are that two such special people have found each other.
     

     •- -We are so excited to share in your big day, and we know this will be a blessed marriage.
     

     •- It is hard to believe that the young people we have watched grow up are now approaching on the next step in life's journey.
     

     •- Congratulations, and thank you so much for including us on your wedding day.

   How You Chose the Gift

   • Whether it's a place setting, gift for their home, or even a gift card, you chose the gift for a specific reason--because it was something from your heart. Even if it's not the most glamorous gift (trash cans and towels, anyone?), every one serves a purpose. Some sample sentences may include:
     

     •- I know no one ever picks ____ off a registry list, so I hope this gift is useful to you in your new home.
     

     •- I hope you all can use this gift card to purchase some new items for your home.
     

     •- -What a beautiful china pattern you have chosen--hopefully this will put you one step closer to completing your registry!
     

     Whatever your reason (even if it a humorous one), sharing your intentions provides a personalized touch.

   Offering a Well-Wish

   • Your wedding gift enclosure does not have to be excessively long--just meaningful. You can wrap the card up by wishing the couple a bright future, sharing a quote that is especially meaningful to you or offering a piece of advice for a happy marriage. These examples include:
     

     •- We truly wish you all the best for a happy marriage.
     

     •- -I keep a special quote in mind when it comes to love: ______."
     

     •- -My mother always told me (and I have found that it's true!) that a happy marriage is based on trust and honesty--wishing you these things and so much more.
     

     After you include this statement, end with a closing, such as Love, Best, All Our Love, etc. If you are part of a larger family, having each family member sign could also provide an extra sense of personalization. A simple "The Smith Family" is also certainly acceptable and elegant.

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How much does an alvina valenta dress cost?

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Alvina Valenta is a line produced by JLM Couture. All dresses are handmade in the United States using high-quality fabrics and most run from misses size 2 to 24. Counterfeit dresses do exist, so let the buyer beware if anything looks too cheap--or good--to be true. Of course, these designer gowns cost a good sum of money. It's possible to find cheaper dresses in the used bridal market, but new garments may be available for less than retail with some investigation.

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1. Features of an Alvina Valenta Dress

   • According to the official website, Alvina Valenta dresses contain many hand-finished touches combined with top-shelf fabrics. The body of the dress is crafted from valuable fabrics such as silk, satin shantung or satin silk organza. These bridal fabrics are expensive, costing between $10 and $40 a yard. All hems have lace facing, including the petticoat- fabric roses are crafted by hand, with all bead work custom-sewn. Alvina Valenta dresses are priced consistently with the value of the labor and materials.

   Cost Range for a Bridal Gown

   • On the lower end of the scale, an Alvina Valenta bridal gown costs between $1,500 and $3,000. However, many of the dresses cost more than $3,000. A diligent bride-to-be can find the dresses for less on the Internet or through another source that offers discounts. The suggested retail price of a particular dress may be listed at $3,200, but an Internet vendor could sell it for as little as $1,400. Before buying, try to find reviews of the site to ensure that you're not purchasing a counterfeit garment. Depending on the wholesale cost, an enterprising retailer can offer a substantially reduced price, even for designer bridals like Alvina Valenta.

   Alvina Valenta Bridesmaid Dress Cost

   • The bridesmaid dresses are substantially less expensive than the bridal gowns, with most ranging between $150 to $300 retail. Vendors don't offer the same discount on these gowns as for the bridals. For those who don't want to spend that much money, there are online shops offering a close replica of the design for about a third of the price. An original will cost a good deal more.

   Get a Cheaper Alvina Valenta Dress

   • For the thrifty bride-to-be, there are several ways to nab one of these designer frocks. Check online sellers for used dresses. After all, the gowns were probably worn for several hours and then put up for sale. Good sources for used Alvina Valenta gowns include Craigslist and eBay. There are also online bridal consignment shops like Pre-Owned Wedding Dresses that sell gently used wedding gowns. If Internet shopping doesn't appeal, don't forget to look closer to home at upscale thrift and consignment shops in the area. Often, a shopper can leave information on what she's looking for with the store so that she can be contacted when new merchandise arrives that fits her request.

   The Value of an Alvina Valenta Dress

   • An Alvina Valenta dress is a top-quality garment that will look beautiful on that special day. Just a bit of careful shopping can drop the price by almost 50 percent, making the cost of the dress all the more worthwhile. Get even more value from the gown by reselling or donating it after the ceremony. Be ready to spend good money for an experienced tailor to do alterations, and complement your chic purchase with high-quality accessories.

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Italian restaurants in dana point, california

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Dana Point is a small city located between Los Angeles and San Diego. It is a coastal area with miles of beaches and areas of natural beauty. Visitors to the area will find plenty of restaurant options, including Italian eateries. There are two Italian restaurants in the city and others close by.

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1. Luciana's

   • Luciana's restaurant is located in the heart of downtown Dana Point, just over two blocks from local beaches and marinas. It is an elegantly decorated restaurant with a brick fireplace and ornamentation that gives it an Italian feel. The restaurant produces a wide range of authentic dishes, including rustic tomato soups with Tuscan breads, caprese salads with tomato, mozzarella and basil as well as gnocchi with marinara sauce. Private catered events are also available, with space for parties of up to 75 people. Luciana's is open seven days a week, serving only dinner

   Brio Tuscany Grille

   • Brio Tuscany Grille is just over two miles from downtown Dana Point, close to Monarch Beach golf course. It is a high-end restaurant, which is elegantly decorated with attractive wall hangings and pictures. It also has large, ceiling to floor windows which make it feel bright and open during the day. The menu offers a wide range of Italian dishes, such as peppered beef carpaccio, homemade minestrone soup and clam linguine. The restaurant is open for lunch Monday to Friday and for dinner seven days a week.

   Agostino's

   • Agostino's is just two miles from Dana Point, in nearby Capistrana Beach. It is just a few yards from the local seafront and offers ocean views. It has simple and clean decor with tiled floors and ocean themed pictures on the walls. The restaurant's menu offers a wide range of authentic dishes, including fried calamari, sausage with peppers and gnocchi with pesto. The restaurant is only open for dinner Tuesday to Sunday.

   Ti Amo

   • Ti Amo is located just four miles from Dana Point, in nearby Laguna Beach, within a block of the local seafront. The decor is designed to mimic an Italian villa, with frescos on the walls and ornate hangings. Paintings on the restaurant's walls are the work of Martine Castoro, a local artist. The menu offers Italian and Mediterranean cuisine, with dishes such as carpaccio of beef, crab ravioli and short rib filled tortelloni. The restaurant is available for private banquets outside of its normal opening hours on request. Ti Amo is open seven days a week for dinner service only.

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What to say in a wedding program

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Although not required, wedding programs are a formal way to let guests know the course of events during a wedding ceremony. Whether it is a basic outline, or a detailed brochure, the wedding program introduces guests to the wedding party and lets them know when certain rituals will be preformed during the wedding ceremony. The program is also a helpful guide for faith- or cultural-based ceremonies, since all guests may not be familiar with the customs.

1. The Events

   • List the events of the wedding ceremony in chronological order in the wedding program. Detail each event, and include any extra information. For example, if a song will be sung, list the name of the song followed by who wrote it and arranged it. Then list the singer and how he or she is related to the couple. For a more detailed program, a short biography of the singer may be interesting. Include details about the singer's involvement in a local choir, band or other musical organization. If the couple met the soloist through a musical connection, that could be included.

     Detail all events of the wedding. Include the names of the two people getting married, the wedding date, time and the location of the ceremony. List the readings, rituals and songs. Since each wedding ceremony is unique, the events of the wedding will differ, and the wedding program will let guests know what to expect next.

   The People

   • List the wedding party, their role in the wedding, and how they are related to the wedding couple. Include the officiant, musicians, ushers, guest book people and those who handed out the wedding programs, since they all made the ceremony events possible.

     Include a short biography of the couple getting married if it is a longer wedding program. Write about how they met, their hobbies and future plans or aspirations. Including a photo is a nice touch since many guests will keep the wedding program as a keepsake.

   Thank You

   • At the end or back of the program thank the guests, families and everyone who helped make the wedding day possible. Often couples will explain the reason for special ceremony rituals or bouquets in honor of loved ones who have passed away. A short note about the reception location and time can also be printed on the wedding program.

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What to say in a wedding card

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A wedding is certainly one of the most important, memorable and happy occasions a couple experiences in a lifetime. What you write in your wedding card should be just as significant. A few simple, sincere and poignant words can speak volumes.

1. Expression of Happiness

   • Let the bride and groom know that you wish them great happiness. These words can be: "May you two be as happy forever as you are on this day."

   Wishes for a Long Life Together

   • Let the couple know that you hope they have a long and happy life together with these words: "Here is wishing you both the best life has to offer and a long and blissful life together."

   Congratulations

   • Offer congratulations with the following verse: "Congratulations and best wishes on your wedding day and every day hereafter."

   Blessing

   • If you would like to add a blessing, write: "May your marriage be blessed with love for all the years of your lives."

   Wishes

   • Offer the bride and groom your best wishes with these words: "Sending you wishes filled with much love for a long and happy life together."

   A Short Poem

   • Write a brief poem: "May your marriage be filled with love and delight. May you have great happiness day and night. May your life be filled with much laughter. May you both live a long life and happily ever after."

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Ideas for a love scrapbook layout

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It is challenging to find the right gift for your significant other. Instead of purchasing your loved one a box of chocolates or perfume, consider creating a love scrapbook, which will make the ideal personal gift. Continue to add moments and milestones to your scrapbook as time progresses. Together, you can look back and reminisce about the past as you create more memories together. A scrapbook does not have to contain pictures- it can carry other memorable items and documents.

1. Dating Scrapbook

   • Serious couples may find this idea beneficial. Use either a shoe box or a traditional accordion album for creating this layout. Collect items that hold onto the memories of your first date, your first kiss and other memorable beginnings. For instance, include movie stubs for all the times you went to the movies together. If your first date took place at a restaurant, include the napkin from that restaurant. Put in a sea shell from that island getaway you had together. Include love letters, dried flowers, cards and photos. Become creative when documenting your firsts. Use items that stand out in your memory and in the scrapbook. A relationship can get comfortable over time, and this scrapbook can help put the spark back into it.

   ABC Scrapbook

   • If you do not have any ideas for creating a love scrapbook, or if you need more guidance consider creating an ABC scrapbook. Choose a topic from each letter of the alphabet and create a page for that topic. You can include nicknames, memories, romantic moments or phrases. For example, use the letter "L" to represent your love for each other, or memories from the first time you said "I love you" to each other. Include items and photos that refer to the words or phrases on your page. An actual scrapbook, rather than a box, would work for this project.

   Scrapbook Journal

   • Writing in your scrapbook creates a personal touch. Add more than just photos and items. Fill the pages with stories about how you first met, your first date and how you feel about each other. Take turns writing each other's thoughts into the scrapbook. Write a few words, a few sentences or several paragraphs. Make it more intimate by writing love letters to each other in your scrapbook. Also, feel free to include lyrics, poems and quotes that relate to your relationship. Use topics such as "A History of Us" or "Ten Things I Love About You". For extra creativity think of a list of questions to ask each other such as favorite foods, future goals, traditions, pet peeves and topics you may agree or disagree on. This can help you learn more about each other while recreating that spark.

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What makes wine glasses sing?

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Making wine glasses sing by rubbing a wet finger along the rim has been a popular party trick for centuries. The ghostly, pure tones demonstrate several scientific phenomena.

1. Wine Glass Resonance

   • Wine glasses make musical tones when they vibrate at their natural frequency. When this occurs, the rim and sides of the glass are oscillating inward and outward like a bell. The rate a glass vibrates, also known as its frequency, is determined by its size, shape and thickness.

   The Slip-Stick Motion

   • The motion of running a wet finger along the rim results in slip-stick motion. This is when the right amount of friction causes one object to alternate between slipping over another object and sticking to it. Slip-stick motion causes a glass to vibrate when a sliding finger pushes and releases the glass repeatedly at a very fast rate, transferring energy from the motion of your finger into the glass itself. Another example of slip-stick motion would be a violin bow moving along a string. In both cases, the slip-stick motion is so fast that the movement appears to be completely smooth and uninterrupted.

   Adjusting Pitch

   • Every glass has its own natural frequency based on the physical properties of the glass, and this frequency equates to its musical pitch. The pitch can be adjusted by adding or removing water from the glass because the water absorbs the vibrations and reduces its frequency. Add water to lower the pitch and remove water to make it higher.

   Fun Fact

   • Benjamin Franklin was so captivated by the practice of making wine glasses sing that he devised a serious musical instrument called the armonica. It was built from a set of glass bells that varied in size from large to small, one for each musical note of a small piano. The bells were attached to a foot-powered spindle which rotated the glass bells. The armonica player would then apply a wet finger to a bell and cause it to ring out. At one point the armonica was so popular that Mozart and Beethoven both composed for it.

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How to take great wedding images

take great wedding images

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Many guests and family members ask photographers for tips to improve their wedding photographs. With a standard digital camera and a few professional techniques, any wedding guest can achieve superb images to capture the memories. Avoid the common mistakes of amateur photographs by using the "rule of thirds," changing your perspective and focusing on candid moments as well as posed portraits.

Things You'll Need

• Digital camera (minimum 8 mega pixels)
• Zoom telephoto lens (200 mm or 300 mm)
• Short focal length lens (standard kit length)
• USB card reader
• Image editing software
• Computer

Instructions

1. • 1

     Use the "rule of thirds" to compose visually interesting photographs. Imagine a grid superimposed on each image: two vertical lines and two horizontal lines splitting the frame into nine even boxes. Position your subjects on the points where the lines connect instead of in the center. This professional technique encourages the viewer's eye to move around the photo instead of deadlocking in the center.

   • 2

     Change your point of view. Squat down to a child's eye level to photograph younger wedding party members as they come down the aisle. Shoot bird's-eye scenes from above in balconies or staircases.

   • 3

     Add pop to normal color photographs using black-and-white or sepia tones. Place the digital photo card into a card reader and attach it to the USB port on your computer. Upload the photos to the computer's desktop. Open image editing software, such as Photoshop Elements or iPhoto. Choose "Edit" from the drop-down menu. Select "Black and White" or "Sepia" color modes. Save as a new image to avoid losing the original color version.

   • 4

     Mix posed portraits with candid moments. Set your camera on continuous shooting mode. Press the shutter and hold for five or six frames to capture wedding party members interacting naturally. Choose the most flattering image from the series to keep.

   • 5

     Stay aware of small moments happening around you. Keep your eyes focused for natural laughter, hugs, kisses and other human moments occurring away from the camera. Use a longer lens, such as 70 mm to 300 mm, to capture natural images of people who become stiff in front of the camera.

Tips &- Warnings

• Keep the camera ready to capture laughter and natural facial expressions after the posed portrait. Many people do not relax until after they think the camera has snapped.

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Beach wedding in jamaica

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The Caribbean island of Jamaica serves as a scenic, romantic backdrop for a beach wedding. Couples can choose to marry on public beaches or private beaches attached to all-inclusive resorts, which also serve as a perfect honeymoon spot. Whether a couple chooses an intimate ceremony on the beach with only an officiant or plans a destination wedding with their family and friends, Jamaica's beaches can accommodate the event.

1. Marriage License

   • Getting married on a Jamaican beach requires only 24-hours notice. Couples apply for a marriage license at the Ministry of Justice in the country's capital of Kingston. Couples must submit proof of citizenship, such as a birth certificate, as well as proof of divorce, if applicable. Widowers need to provide a death certificate. The Jamaican marriage license costs about $60 to $65, which equates to 4,000 Jamaican dollars.

   Locations

   • Many locations in Jamaica can accommodate beach weddings. The island splits into six distinct resort areas---Montego Bay, Negril, the South Coast, Kingston, Ocho Rios and Port Antonio. Couples can access these locations by two airports on the island: Sangster International Airport and Norman Manley Airport. In addition, a number of cruise lines have ports of call in Jamaica.

   Officiants

   • The island gives couples interested in a beach wedding access to a number of nondenominational wedding officiants. These officiants are able to perform the wedding on the beach and can provide witnesses if the couple are eloping. Officiants cost $50 to $250, according to Jamaica's tourism website. Many resorts on the island can also provide couples with information about wedding officiants.

   Money-Saving Tips

   • Jamaica offers a moderate climate year round, so couples can choose to marry in the off-season to cut down on wedding costs. According to Jamaica's tourism site, the off-season runs from May to December, and having a beach wedding during this period can save couples as much as 40 percent. In addition, use local resources when planning your beach wedding, and shop around, comparing prices from one vendor to the next.

   Considerations

   • Couples and their guests traveling to Jamaica must have a valid U.S. passport. Make sure your guests are prepared to attend your Jamaican beach wedding by sending out save-the-date cards with all necessary travel information, and don't forget to mention the passport requirement. With advanced notice, all guests can secure their passports before the wedding day.

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Slow dance song suggestions for a daughter and daddy dance

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Along with the bride and groom's first dance, the father-daughter dance is one of the most touching moments at a wedding reception. The traditional dance gives the bride and her father a chance to hit the dance floor and share a special memory together. A number of slow songs help make this dance even more memorable for the bride, her father and the rest of the wedding guests.

1. Songbook Standards

   • Brides and their dads who want to stick to tried and true slow dance songs can pick from a number of songbook standards. These classic songs are timeless and suited for a classy reception. For example, the swinging beat of Frank Sinatra's rendition of Fred Astaire's "The Way You Look Tonight," has a jazzy sound that will fit in well at many receptions. Other choices include "What A Wonderful World" by Louis Armstrong, "I've Got The World On A String" performed by Tony Bennett, among others.

   Adult Contemporary

   • The soft sounds and moving lyrics that express the bond between a daughter and her father featured in many adult contemporary gems make them an appropriate choice for a father and daughter dance. From Bette Midler's "Wind Beneath My Wings" and "Butterfly Kisses" by Bob Carlisle, to "Because You Loved Me by Celine Dion and Van Morrison's "Have I Told You Lately," the bride and her father can slow dance to a song that is bound to bring a tear to the eyes of many guests that are watching this tender moment.

   Classic Rock

   • Many classic rock songs pair slow, melodic music with meaningful lyrics that are suitable for a father and daughter dance. Plus, chances are that dad will remember the tunes from his younger days and may have even serenaded his daughter with them, making the songs extra special. Songs like "Wonderful Tonight" by Eric Clapton, the Beatles' "In My Life," or "Landslide" by Fleetwood Mac are soft and beautiful choices for a bride and her dad. Other, slightly more perky songs, such as "You Are The Sunshine of My Life" by Stevie Wonder can still make for a special slow dance.

   Modern

   • Brides may want to listen to songs that are different than the traditional, common music choices for their weddings. Instead, they may pick contemporary music for their special day. For rhythm and blues or pop lovers, a song such as Beyonce's "Daddy" has the modern sound and sweet lyrics that make it appealing for a contemporary wedding. "Sweet Pea" by Amos Lee has a folksy feel that will fit in at a charming country wedding. For an original spin on an old favorite, Hawaiian singer, Israel "IZ" Ka'ano'i Kamakawiwo'ole's, rendition of "Somewhere Over the Rainbow" is an option for a father and his daughter to dance to at her wedding.

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D.c. restaurants with a view

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Besides being the seat of the United States government, Washington, D.C., also attracts many visitors to see the elegant architecture and the various scenery the area has to offer. Whether you're in town to take in the sights or you just have business to take care of for the day, you can choose from a variety of restaurants in D.C. that offer top views of the city's monuments and the Potomac River.

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1. P.O.V.

   • P.O.V. (pointofviewdc.com/) is a restaurant based in the W Hotel on 15th Street, just a few blocks from the White House and the Washington Monument on the National Mall. The restaurant is "known for its spectacular views of the White House and the city's historic monuments," according to P.O.V.'s website. The restaurant's rooftop is an indoor lounge with an outdoor terrace. The restaurant has a varied menu with options ranging from seafood to pizza to lamb chops.

   America

   • The America restaurant (arkrestaurants.com/america.html) is based at Union Station and offers "sweeping views of Capitol Hill," according to its website. The restaurant focuses on American cuisine, including a selection of burgers and appetizers such as macaroni and cheese, roadhouse chili and buffalo wings. Its entree offerings feature braised smoked pork, New England shepherd's pie and pan-fried Virginia ham steak.

   The Lafayette

   • The Lafayette (hayadams.com) is located on the north side of Lafayette Square in the Hay-Adams Hotel, just across from the White House. As such, diners get good views of the White House in a well-lit dining room featuring live classical and jazz piano music. The restaurant serves breakfast, brunch, lunch and dinner. It is closed for dinner on Saturdays and Sundays. Its entrees include lamb loin, tile fish and beef fillet.

   The Sou'Wester

   • You can find the Sou'Wester restaurant (mandarinoriental.com/washington/) in the Mandarin Oriental Hotel in Southwest. The restaurant offers views of the Potomac River waterfront as well as national monuments. The restaurant includes American dishes such as grilled chicken with coleslaw and grilled shrimp along with sides like hush puppies with honey butter and smashed and fried potatoes.

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Ideas for a motown theme party

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Motown Records is the most famous musical offspring of Detroit, spawning more than 100 soul-pop hits throughout the 1960s and 1970s. The label's acts included Smokey Robinson and the Miracles, Marvin Gaye, The Supremes, The Jackson 5, The Temptations and Stevie Wonder. Motown was the first black-owned record label in the country, and its music broke down racial barriers. A Motown-themed party is one way to pay tribute to the music and style of this era.

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1. Music

   • The music selections are, of course, the cornerstone of this party theme. It's easy to find any number of anthologies of Motown classics. Try the Motown Classics Gold series, or, if you're a completest, the Hitsville U.S.A. boxed sets. Or check out the playlist selections at services such as iTunes, where you can download a custom mix for your party.

   Invitations

   • Design your invitations to look like old 45 rpm singles. You can even use an actual song title to add authenticity or humor. "-Please Mr. Postman"- by the Marvelettes works well for a mailed invitation. Or try "-Come See About Me"- by the Supremes, or "-Got To Be There"- by Michael Jackson.

   Other Decor

   • Decorate the party space with album cover reproductions, magazine cover reproductions (check out Life and Rolling Stone in particular), or other publicity art. Play classic video clips in the background, with the sound turned down. Also consider documentaries, such as Standing in the Shadows of Motown.

   Food and Drink

   • The Motown sound is one of the underpinnings of soul music, so you might think soul food is the way to go when it comes to feeding your guests. But if you want to be authentic, consider serving something like Coney dogs instead. Coneys are hot dogs with a chili meat sauce, mustard and diced onions- despite their name, they originated in Detroit. If you can find a recipe for Detroit-style Greek pizza, try it. As for drinks, Vernor's ginger ale is a Detroit-area classic.

   Karaoke Costume Party

   • If you want to do a little more than just dance to the music, you could throw a Motown karaoke costume party. Ask your guests to dress up in shimmering gowns or glam tuxedos. Rent a karaoke machine and stock it with Motown favorites, and let your guests serenade each other all night.

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What to engrave on a ring

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Your engagement and wedding rings are symbolic of the love you and your partner share. Since you are meant to wear these rings forever, engraving a short sentiment on the inside of them will serve as an additional reminder of your engagement, wedding day and love.

1. A Special Date

   • Your wedding date and engagement dates are important to always remember. To ensure you never forget, engrave it on the inside of the ring. As the years go by, you will have a small reminder of that special date. While anniversaries will come and go that date will be locked in, and celebrated, forever.

     For women wearing both an engagement ring and wedding ring, you could engrave both with separate dates. For example, you could engrave the engagement ring with the date of the accepted proposal and the wedding ring with the date of the wedding ceremony.

     For couples wanting something even more special and unique, engrave the date of when you first met onto one ring and the date of the proposal or engagement on the other.

     In the case of men who only wear one ring, including the wedding date alone is sufficient.

   Initials

   • Remember when you were a kid and would write your initials together surrounded by a heart? In the case of an engraved ring, you can do something similar. For example, on the underside of the ring, you could engrave RH+TW, with the ring symbolizing the heart surrounding the love you share. Some engravers are even able to substitute the shape of a heart for the plus sign.

   Quote

   • Your ring can be as customized as you like...provided you have the room. Place a small quote about love, marriage or your partner on the underside of the ring. This will be a shared message only you and your betrothed will know about. Examples would be, "Love Conquers All," "Love You Always" or "Always Yours" with the initials of your partner.

     Instead of a worded sentiment, you could place in the numbers of a Bible verse, such as 1 Corinthians 13. Though this Bible verse reads "Love is patient, love is kind and is not jealous: love does not brag and is not arrogant, does not act unbecomingly- it does not seek its own....but rejoices with the truth," by placing the listing you are able to share this message in a shortened manner.

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Places to get married in scottsdale, arizona

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Scottsdale, Arizona, is a prime location for a desert wedding. Scottsdale is right next to Phoenix and has gorgeous views, plenty of hotels, resorts, and spas from which to choose. Scottsdale is considered an upscale neighborhood and features distinctive luxurious Southwestern style with desert and mountain landscapes.

1. FireSky Resort and Spa

   • The Firesky Resort & Spa boasts modern decor with comfortable accommodations. All guestrooms feature a flat-screen TV, fully stocked bar and complimentary daily newspaper. Suites are available with an outdoor terrace and all rooms have a view of the surrounding mountains. Wedding receptions and ceremonies can be held at the FireSky's lush outdoor desert gardens or one of the contemporary ballrooms. The resort can accommodate everything from intimate ceremonies to lavishly grand receptions. Wedding packages are available and can combine all of the details for a rehearsal dinner, reception or post-wedding brunch. The FireSky can accommodate dinner receptions for up to 500 guests.

     Firesky Resort & Spa

     4925 North Scottsdale Road

     Scottsdale, AZ 85251

     480-945-7666

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   The Four Seasons Resort Scottsdale at Troon North

   • The Four Seasons Resort Scottsdale at Troon North offers ultra chic accommodations with fireplaces, soaking tubs and separate glass showers, plush robes, down pillows and duvets in all guestrooms. The Four Seasons also has amenities for guests that include gourmet coffee and tea and prickly pear iced tea in the lobby. Weddings can be held outside or inside. The fountain terrace is popular for sunset ceremonies, surrounded by a landscaped lawn, lined with trellis and bougainvillea on each side and a featured fountain at the end of the terrace. This site offers a mountain view and outline of a city scape of the valley below. Other luxurious wedding sites include the Pinnacle ballroom, Ironwood Ballroom and the Verde Boardroom.

     Four Seasons Resort Scottsdale at Troon North

     10600 East Crescent Moon Drive

     Scottsdale, AZ 85262

     480-515-5700

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   Hilton Scottsdale Resort & Villas

   • The Hilton Scottsdale Resort & Villas offer luxury guestrooms that feature classic, simple style with elegant decor, high-speed Internet, and complimentary continental breakfast. Spacious suites with views and poolside room are also available. Hotel amenities include laundry and dry cleaning and valet services, on-site convenience store and a 24-hour fitness room. A casual restaurant and a steakhouse are located on the property. Weddings facilities include a variety of outdoor and indoor locations. A team of wedding specialists can assist you with the details of floral arrangements, catering options, and entertainment. The Hilton boasts "polished service" for wedding events at this luxurious Scottsdale location. Let wedding guests explore the wine bar or poolside cantina during the wedding festivities. Stay at one of the honeymoon villas after the wedding and get an en-suite spa treatment.

     Hilton Scottsdale Resort & Villas

     6333 North Scottsdale Road

     Scottsdale, AZ 85250

     480-948-7750

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How to plan a court wedding

plan a court wedding

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For some people, a dream wedding does not include lyrical organ or violin music playing as the bride walks down a flower-laden aisle with crowds of friends and family in attendance. If you do not want all the bells and whistles of a traditional ceremony, a courthouse wedding is the way to go. There are fewer details to worry about when planning a court wedding. The term "short and sweet" describes the ceremony to a tee.

Instructions

1. • 1

     Call your local county clerk's office or go online to learn the specific requirements in your area. Find out where to go to obtain a marriage license, what the fees are, and what forms of identification you will need to bring with you.

   • 2

     Obtain a blood test if your state requires one. This is not a requirement in all states.

   • 3

     Go to the proper office to obtain a marriage license. The fees for marriage licenses vary from state to state. There is generally a waiting period before you can actually get married. The license also will have an expiration date, which also varies from state to state.

   • 4

     Head down to the county courthouse on the day you plan to be married. Typically, you will wait in line for a judge to marry you. This waiting period can last for hours depending on the number of people in line ahead of you, so call in advance to see if your courthouse takes appointments.

   • 5

     Stand in front of the judge while he recites the civil ceremony. Whether you can recite personal vows depends on your county's individual rules. During civil ceremonies in St. Louis County, Mo., for example, a judge performs the ceremony, you cannot recite vows, you have the option of exchanging rings and the whole wedding lasts approximately five minutes.

Tips &- Warnings

• Always contact your local county courthouse for official rules regarding the court wedding ceremony, fees and specific days the judges perform marriage ceremonies.

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Mother of groom etiquette

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The mother of the groom is a unique role that is usually met with questions about proper level of involvement in the wedding and dress code for the big day. While etiquette is highly important, the guidelines also depend upon the nature of the groom's mother's relationship with his fiance.

1. Following the Engagement

   • Once the engagement has taken place, it is traditional for the groom's parents to get in touch with the fiancee's parents and invite them to dinner or drinks or to host them for a weekend trip. If the bride's parents live too far away to make an easy trip, conducting a get-to-know you phone call is sufficient.

   Wedding Planning

   • As a general rule, the degree of involvement in wedding planning should be left to the bride's discretion. If the mother of the groom has special wedding-planning skills, she may wish to share these with the bride, as well as express her willingness to help.

     The same is true of planning the rehearsal dinner. The groom's family typically pays for this dinner, but the mother of the groom should consult with the bride and groom. The bride and groom will typically make food, venue and theme suggestions and provide a guest list. However, it is permissible for the mother of the groom to take over further planning, should the bride and groom agree.

     If money will be a consideration, it important for the mother of the groom to be up front about a budget for the event. This will help the bride and groom create reasonable expectations for the day.

   Dress Code

   • Traditionally, the bride's mother first selects her outfit for the wedding. Once she has done so, she should notify the groom's mother of cut, color and any other pertinent details. Then the groom's mother may purchase her dress, which should complement the bride's mother's. For example, if the bride's mother is wearing a long dress, the groom's mother should also wear a long dress or pants. When choosing color, the groom's mother's outfit should complement, but not match, the bride's mother or the bridesmaids.

     The exception to this is if the bride's mother does not inform the groom's mother in sufficient time to purchase an outfit. For example, if the wedding is two months away and the bride's mother has not yet made her outfit selection, it is considered acceptable for the groom's mother to begin the search process.

   Guest List

   • The groom's mother should work out a mutually agreeable number of invited guests with the bride and then provide a list complete with names, addresses and wording for inner envelope addressing (such as Aunt Jane and Uncle John). This list should be given in a timely fashion and should not exceed the allotted number of guests.

     Additionally, the groom's mother should help secure travel arrangements for out-of-town guests associated with the groom's side of the family.

   At the Wedding

   • If the couple opts for a traditional receiving line, the parents of both the bride and groom should be involved. Greeting guests you do not know with an expression of gratitude for attending is sufficient.

     Another important portion of a wedding is the mother/son dance. These typically take place before the cake is cut, and the song can be selected by the mother, son or both.

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Irish wedding traditions

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"You know, I’ve been to lots of great weddings, but today may have been the best. The small, ornate chapel – the beautiful music – the sincere words that Paul and Linda wrote themselves. Ladies and gentlemen, we all witnessed something very special."

Brides and grooms of Gaelic descent can easily incorporate many wistful Irish traditions into their wedding ceremony. There are sweet and fun customs and traditions for modern couples to cull from their Irish ancestry: from wisdom about the timing of a wedding, to keeping evil spirits at bay, to promoting a fruitful home with many children.

1. History

   • Ireland has a long and rich history.

     A surprising number of modern day wedding traditions take their lead from centuries old Irish customs. Many Irish wedding traditions stem from a persistent belief that mischievous fairies and evil spirits surround us at all times. The Irish took great pains to prevent them from getting an upper hand during the festivities and in the young couple's new life together. Irish brides have long carried an upturned horseshoe on their wedding day to bring them good luck. Originally, it was an actual horseshoe. Today, there are lovely porcelain varieties as well as cloth horseshoes worn on the wrist.

   Purpose of the Traditions

   • Many of the things we do at weddings today started from old Irish traditions.

     In general, most Irish wedding traditions had distinct purpose. There are those that were meant to ward off evil spirits and bad luck, and those which intended to promote a happy marriage and fertility. There are many seemingly innocuous things that were assigned greater meaning, as portents of good or bad luck: Rain on one's wedding day was considered good luck, as was marrying in the month of April. Crossing a funeral procession on the way to the wedding was considered bad luck, as was having a woman be the first to congratulate the bride.

   Good Luck Customs

   • Many cultures incorporate good luck charms into wedding traditions.

     Honeymoons started off as an Irish wedding tradition that was meant to bring the bride and groom success, happiness and fertility. But the tradition didn't include travel plans like it does today. It is traditional for Irish newlyweds to drink a honeyed wine on their wedding day, and then again every day for a month following the wedding. The honeyed wine, which is a type of mead, was believed to improve fertility. If a couple had a baby nine months after getting married, the pregnancy was attributed to the mead. Drinking the wine for the month following the wedding was thought to offer the bride protection from being spirited off by fairies.

     It is also very common for the Irish to give bells as a wedding present. Bells are said to help restore happiness and harmony to a married couple. It is also believed that ringing a bell will remind a couple of their wedding vows, making for a happier marriage.

   Other Traditions

   • Save the top layer for baby's Christening day.

     Some Irish wedding traditions have nothing to do with superstition, and everything to do with custom. Braiding is a very Irish fashion. Irish brides often wore their hair braided, wore braided wreaths of flowers on their heads and sported braided cording on the fabric of their dresses. This can easily be incorporated into a modern wedding.

     Irish wedding cake is traditionally a fruitcake with white icing. The top tier of the cake was a whiskey cake and was not to be eaten at the wedding- the bride and groom had to save it until the Christening of the firstborn. Additionally, they were supposed to save a slice of the cake to be eaten on their first wedding anniversary.

     Many Irish brides carry a simple handkerchief with them down the aisle. This handkerchief is later sewn into a bonnet for the baby to wear on its Christening day. The stitches are later removed, restoring it to it's original function as a hankie, to be carried down the aisle when the daughter herself becomes a bride.

   Irish Wedding Jewelry

   • Some other specifically Irish wedding traditions include the jewelry that is worn by the bride. The claddagh, or Irish wedding band, as it is popularly known in the United States, depicts two hands, holding a heart, topped by a crown. Traditionally, a woman would wear this ring on her right hand, with the heart facing outward to indicate that she was romantically unattached. Turning the heart to face the wearer suggests that the woman is in a romantic relationship. Moving the ring to the left hand, with the heart facing outward is an indication that the woman is engaged, and finally, turning the heart to face the woman while the ring is on the left hand symbolizes that she is married.

     Not all Irish brides wore or will wear a claddagh though. For those opting for other styles, it is considered to be very lucky for the bride's wedding ring to contain her birthstone. Even stones that were typically considered unlucky are believed to bring luck when they are included in the bride's wedding band.

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Hotels in midtown manhattan

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Midtown, Manhattan encompasses the area in New York City between 14th and 59th streets. The area has many attractions including the Empire State Building, the Museum of Modern Art, Saint Patrick's Cathedral, the Broadway Theater District and Times Square and attracts tourists from all over the world. Whether you are in Manhattan for business, to see a Broadway show or to do some sightseeing, there are a wide variety of hotels to choose from when planning your Midtown, Manhattan vacation.

1. Hudson New York

   • The Hudson New York hotel is located within walking distance of Central Park and the theater district. The hotel offers a wide range of accommodation options including rooms, suites, penthouses and apartments. There is a 24-hour gym on the premises, featuring state-of-the-art exercise equipment, personal training sessions and spa treatments. Other on-site amenities include a library, a bar, a private park, Sky Terrace- and Hudson Hall, the hotel's restaurant. Each room is equipped with a flat screen HDTV, wireless Internet access and a workspace.

     Hudson New York

     356 W. 58th St.

     New York, NY 10019

     212-554-6000

     hudsonhotel.com

   Paramount Hotel New York

   • Conveniently located in the heart of Times Square, the Paramount Hotel New York offers 597 rooms and suites. The hotel boasts stylish guest rooms, modern dé-cor and luxurious linens. Wireless high-speed Internet is available for an additional fee. Hotel services include a business center, fitness room and conference rooms for large events. The Paramount plays host to Bar 46: Athletic Club and the Mezzanine Restaurant.

     Paramount Hotel New York

     235 W. 46th St.

     New York, NY 10036

     212-764-5500

     nycparamount.com

   New York Palace

   • The New York Palace is located steps from Saks Fifth Avenue, Saint Patrick's Cathedral and Rockefeller Center. The hotel's 55-story tower offers 813 rooms and 86 suites, along with a spa, a fitness center and a state-of-the-art conference space. Complimentary house car service is available seven days a week for drop-offs within a 20-block radius. The hotel also has a complimentary shuttle service to the Broadway Theater District, which is available Tuesdays through Saturdays. All rooms are equipped with full-size desks, separate seating areas, three phone lines, an in-room safe and high-speed wireless Internet access.

     The New York Palace

     455 Madison Ave.

     New York, NY 10022

     212-888-7000

     newyorkpalace.com

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How to word wedding invitations for remarriage

word wedding invitations for remarriage

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Marrying again is cause for celebration. This time around, you have fewer conventions you must follow. You are free to word the invitation to reflect your more mature and independent circumstances. Weddings for second (or subsequent) marriages tend to be more low key than first marriages, but you still have plenty of opportunity to share your joy.

Instructions

1. • 1

     Choose the level of formality or informality that you want to convey with the invitation. The level of formality in the invitation gives your guests an idea of what to expect, including giving a clue to what they should wear. You convey this level through the choice of wording, paper and printing style.

     The level of formality is only slightly linked to the number of people you plan to invite. Generally, the fewer guests, the more informal. But if you want to have a formal invitation for a half-dozen people, go for it. If you want to have a handbill with graphics that says, "-We're getting married! Come on in!"- for a wedding of 350 people, go ahead. You can carry either off with taste and panache as long as you're confident in the style you want to convey. The level of formality will be indicated by the wording you choose.

   • 2

     Decide whether you will follow traditional language that names the hosts.
     

     If you decide to name the hosts, the most traditional wording is for the bride's parents: Mr. and Mrs. Traditional Mom and Dad request the honor of your presence at the marriage of their daughter ...

     Use a combination of the bride's and groom's parents or step-parents: Mr. and Mrs. Traditional and Mr. and Mrs. Inlaw request the honor of your presence at the marriage of their daughter, Mrs. Sally Bride, and their son, Mr. Jon Groom ...

     It's a little less formal, but a traditional way for a couple entering a second marriage would be simply to name the bride and groom: Mr. John Groom and Ms. Mary Bride request the honor of your presence at their marriage ...

     It's not uncommon these days for adult children to host a wedding for their mother or father, so the traditional wording would be: Mr. &- Mrs. Marshal Daughter and Mr. and Mrs. John Son request the honor of your presence at the marriage of their mother, Mrs. Marge Mother, to Mr. George Second Husband ...

     Or if children of both bride and groom are hosting: Mr. &- Mrs. John Son and Mr. and Mrs. Marshal Daughter and Mr. &- Mrs. James Son request the honor of your presence at the marriage of their parents ...

     You'll notice that whoever is named as the host or hosts, they are referred to in third person--"-they"- and "-their,"- not "-we"- and "-our."- Further, the wives' names are submerged in "-Mr. and Mrs."-

     To loosen the formality, use first and last names of everyone, men and women, and drop the titles. Substitute "-invite you to share the celebration of their marriage"- or "-invite you to witness their marriage"- or similar wording.

   • 3

     Drop the hosts from the invitation altogether. The formal way: "-The honor of your presence is requested at the marriage of Ms. Sally Bride to Mr. Jon Groom ..."-

     Go informal: "-You are invited to the marriage of Sally Bride to Jon Groom ..."-

     Or go even more informal: "-Please join us as we say our vows ..."-

   • 4

     Lessen the impact of how you choose to designate hosts by beginning with a poem or a quote. This can be taken from Scripture, such as, "-I am my beloved and my beloved is mine,"- Song of Solomon 6:3.

     If your clergy person is advising about the wedding, ask her to suggest some Scripture. If you want to look up your own, searchable texts of most English versions of the bible are available at www.biblegateway.com. Searchable versions of The Revised Standard and New Revised Standard are available at bible.oremus.org.

     Choose lines of poetry or quotes. Nicholas Gordon has a list of dozens of poems for every wedding situation you might think of at www.poemsforfree.com. A favorite of web searchers is one for people remarrying their original spouses, which begins:
     

     We bid you help us celebrate
     

     A day of pomp and pride
     

     On which we tie a nuptial knot
     

     We previously untied.

   • 5

     Continue the level of formality or informality through the manner of designating numbers and names. If you use "-Mr. and Mrs.,"- continue the traditional approach by spelling out all numbers for the time and date: Saturday, the twelfth of June, two thousand ten, at six o'clock in the evening.

     If you have dropped the titles and want to convey a more informal atmosphere, change to ordinal numbers: Saturday, June 12, 2010, at 6 p.m.

Tips &- Warnings

• The location of your wedding and reception will affect the level of formality of the ceremony and therefore should be reflected in your invitation. A "-gather round"- ceremony in a park suggests informality, but a solemn communion service in a traditional church followed by a blow-out reception in a hotel might be better conveyed through formal wording.

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Etiquette for a wedding invite decline response

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Weddings are a time-honored ceremony with their own formalities and rules of etiquette. Certain guidelines have developed over time regarding different aspects of the wedding ceremony- one aspect is the wedding invitation. If you know more than a handful of people, you are likely to get invited to a few weddings during your lifetime. If you cannot attend a wedding, there are certain procedures you need to follow to decline the wedding invite request.

1. Response Types

   • There are three types of wedding invitations: formal, semi-formal and informal. Etiquette for wedding invitations response dictates that the reply, even if to decline, be returned using the same type of formality as the invitation.

   Timing

   • Wedding invitations usually allow for weeks of advance notice- this is to ensure accurate planning and preparation of the entire wedding party and guests. The etiquette to decline the wedding invitation suggests that a response should be mailed within two or three days after the receipt of the invitation or knowledge that the invited party will decline the invitation. If the original response was an acceptance to the invitation, but then must be changed to a decline, etiquette dictates an immediate notification to the couple stating a reason.

   Response Wording

   • Proper etiquette to turn down a wedding invitation is to use the simple wording "I/We are unable to attend." Use the reply card if one is provided. Send a side note on appropriate stationary giving a reason why you cannot attend. If portions of the invited party cannot attend, the wording would be similar to "Mr. Jones accepts with pleasure the invitation of (wedding couple). Mrs. Jones regrets that she is unable to attend." The person who is unable to attend can add a brief handwritten note explaining why she declined.

   Response Format

   • Acceptance and regrets towards wedding invitations are handwritten. It is considered bad etiquette to use blank forms for a response to an invitation. Replies given via email can be used if the invitation was an email, although handwritten replies are still considered a more proper form.

   Considerations

   • If no reply was requested, the recipient should still send a letter or make a phone call declining the invitation. When writing to decline the request, write out the date and time using the same formality used in the invitation. When declining an invitation request, a handwritten note to congratulate the couple or send well wishes should also be included.

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Downtown chicago activities

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The third largest city in the United States offers beautiful architecture, excellent shopping, fine dining, an enthusiastic sports scene, a myriad of cultural activities, and, of course, deep-dish pizza. To enjoy everything Chicago has to offer, plan your visit during the summer months, when the city comes alive with outdoor festivals and you can take full advantage of Lake Michigan's beach and water activities.

1. Millennium Park

   • Millennium Park offers an eye-catching blend of art and architectural forms.

     One of the highlights of any trip to Chicago is a visit to Millennium Park. This 24.5-acre park features works from some of the world's most renowned architects, artists and landscape designers. Famous architect Frank Gerhy designed the Jay Pritzker Pavilion. The brushed stainless steel outdoor concert pavilion rises to a height of 120 feet, and a state-of-the-art sound system brings crisp sound to audiences of up to 11,000 people. During the warmer months there are free concerts where you can bring a picnic.

     The Crown Fountain is a unique multimedia display. Two 50-foot towers project images of real Chicago citizens--and the water spouts out of their mouths. The Cloud Gate is a 110-ton elliptical sculpture whose mirror surface reflects the images of onlookers in a variety of different perspectives. Both of these works are huge hits with children and adults alike.

   Chicago Architecture Tour

   • A Chicago River cruise offers close-up views of Chicago's diverse architecture.

     The city of Chicago is a living museum of great modern architecture featuring some of the most distinguished architects of the19th and 20th centuries, such as Frank Lloyd Wright and Mies van der Rohe, and more than a dozen architectural styles, from Gothic Revival to Beaux Arts to Art Deco.

     A great way to appreciate the architecture and skyline of Chicago is take a Chicago architecture tour. These narrated cruises take you along the Chicago River and give you an overview of the history of the city and its buildings and allow you beautiful views of the city and its historic landmarks. The Chicago Architecture Foundation runs one of the best architectural river tours.

   Chicago Cultural Center

   • Built in 1857 as a public library, the Chicago Cultural Center remains one of the city's most beautiful buildings. The interior features rare imported marbles, antique brass and mosaics made of mother of pearl and Favrile glass. One of its most stunning attractions is the recently restored glass dome, designed by Tiffany. The largest art glass dome in the world, its approximately 30,000 glass pieces cover more than1,000 square feet.

     The Cultural Center hosts more than 800 free cultural programs each year, from lectures and panels to dance performances to art exhibitions and more. See their website for the latest schedule (see resources).

   Art Institute of Chicago

   • The Art Institute of Chicago is home to the third largest permanent art collection in the country, featuring more than 260,000 works of art and artifacts from around the world, including collections of African-American art, European painting and sculpture, art and objects from the Silk Road, and Indian art of the Americas.

     In May 2009, the museum unveiled its Modern Wing, which showcases art, architecture and photography from the 20th century in three floors of light-bathed galleries.

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